Brotherhood Private Gathering Guidelines

Please read the following guidelines carefully before attending.

1. 🔒 Event Focus

These gatherings center around male bonding, comfort in shared male space, mutual self-pleasure, touch, and authentic connection.

This is not a space for anonymous hookup culture, competition, or high-pressure sexual behavior. The atmosphere is meant to be respectful, relaxed, and brotherhood-oriented.

2. ✅ What Is Welcome

You are welcome to explore the following forms of consensual connection:

• Solo or mutual masturbation

• Friendly or erotic touch (such as hugs, massage, caressing)

• Voyeurism or exhibitionism (watching / being seen)

• Body-to-body contact such as frot or C2C

• Sensual touch above the waist (kissing, nipple play, close physical affection)

• Conversation, laughter, relaxation, and simply being present with other men

Some men come primarily for connection and atmosphere. Others enjoy more physical engagement. Both are understood here.

3. 🚫 What Is Not Permitted

To maintain the purpose and comfort of the space, the following are not allowed:

• Any form of penetration or insertion

• Any stimulation involving the anus

• Oral contact below the waist

• Docking

• Aggressive, coercive, or boundary-pushing behavior

• Filming, photography, or recording of any kind

4. 🩲 Participation & Comfort

We encourage men to become physically comfortable at their own pace.

Many participants dress down to underwear or less, but no one should feel rushed, pressured, or judged. Respect each man’s comfort level and personal pace.

5. 🔧 Gear & Toys

To maintain hygiene, safety, and simplicity:

• Insertable toys are not allowed

• Fleshlights or similar toys are not permitted

• Jockstraps, harnesses, cockrings, and similar non-insertable gear are generally acceptable

• Hoods, restraints, or anything limiting movement are not allowed

When in doubt, please ask the host beforehand.

6. 🤝 Consent Is Everything

Always ask before initiating touch.

Consent must be clear, mutual, and ongoing. A “no” is final and requires no explanation.

We care for one another like brothers. Respect for boundaries is non-negotiable.

7. 💬 Conversation in the Space

Friendly conversation is welcome and encouraged.

Many men come for connection as much as physical activity. Please be socially aware, respectful of the room’s energy, and mindful of those who may be shy or new.

8. 💦 Ejaculation Etiquette

If you are nearing climax, give a verbal heads-up.

• Ejaculating on yourself or a covered surface is preferred

• Avoid the floor

• Never aim near another person’s face or body without clear consent

• Ejaculating on another person is allowed only with explicit permission

Please also remove sharp jewelry, rings, or anything that could scratch skin.

9. 🤧 Health & Wellness

Please stay home if you are feeling unwell or experiencing symptoms such as cold, flu, COVID, fever, active infection, rash, or anything contagious.

Honesty protects everyone.

10. 🚫 No Drugs or Alcohol

This is a sober space.

Please do not attend under the influence of alcohol, marijuana, or any intoxicants.

Clear minds and mutual awareness help keep the environment safe and respectful.

11. 🧼 Hygiene Matters

Please arrive freshly showered and ready to share space respectfully.

We ask for:

• Clean hands

• Short / trimmed nails

• Fresh breath

• No overpowering scents or cologne

• Clean clothing and gear

Soap, mouthwash, and basic supplies may be available.

12. 🛡️ Brotherhood Standard

Above all else, help us protect the atmosphere.

This space works because men choose maturity, kindness, discretion, and respect. Every man contributes to the culture of the room.

Thank you for helping keep it that way.