Event Guidelines for Brotherhood Basement Gatherings
To ensure our time together is respectful, grounded, and safe for everyone, please read and honor the following guidelines. These help create an environment rooted in mutual care, clear boundaries, and meaningful connection.
1. 🔒 Event Focus
This is a mutual self-pleasure space. Activities such as oral or anal sex are not part of this event and are not permitted.
2. ✅ Allowed Activities
You’re welcome to explore the following forms of consensual connection:
Solo or mutual masturbation
Erotic and friendly touch (e.g. hugs, massage)
Voyeurism and exhibitionism (watching/showing)
Body-to-body contact such as frot (genital rubbing) or C2C (penis-to-penis)
Sensual contact above the waist (e.g. kissing, nipple play)
3. 🚫 Not Allowed
To keep our space safe and respectful for all, the following are not permitted:
Any form of penetration or insertion
Any contact with or stimulation of the anus
Oral contact below the waist
“Docking” (head-to-head foreskin sharing)
4. 🩲 Minimum Participation
We ask that all participants dress down to at least underwear as a way to foster shared presence and vulnerability.
5. 🔧 Gear & Toys
To maintain hygiene and comfort:
Insertable toys (e.g. dildos, plugs) are not allowed
Fleshlights or similar toys are not permitted due to cleanliness concerns
Other gear (jockstraps, harnesses, cockrings, etc.) is generally okay
Sensory deprivation gear (e.g. hoods, restraints) or anything that restricts movement is not allowed for safety reasons
When in doubt, please ask the host before bringing or using gear or toys
6. 🤝 Consent is Everything
Always ask before initiating touch. Consent must be explicit, and a “no” is always final. Respect each man’s boundaries. We care for each other like brothers—mutual respect is non-negotiable.
7. 💬 Conversation in the Space
Always ask before initiating touch. Consent must be explicit, and a “no” is always final. Respect each man’s boundaries. We care for each other like brothers—mutual respect is non-negotiable.
8. 💦 Ejaculation Etiquette
If you’re nearing climax, give a verbal heads-up.
Ejaculating on yourself or a covered surface is preferred
Avoid the floor and never aim near anyone’s face or openings
You may ejaculate on another person’s body only with their clear consent
Please remove sharp jewelry, rings, or piercings that could scratch or harm skin
9. 🤧 Health & Wellness
Please stay home if you're feeling unwell, including symptoms of cold, flu, COVID, or active infections. HIV-positive men are welcome, as the nature of our events carries no documented risk of transmission through mutual masturbation.
10. 🚫 No Drugs or Alcohol
This is a sober space. Please do not attend under the influence of any intoxicants, including marijuana. Some future social gatherings may include alcohol, but play events are always substance-free.
11. 🧼 Hygiene Matters
Come freshly showered with:
Clean hands, short/trimmed nails
Fresh breath, no overpowering scents
No cologne or strong-scented products
Mouthwash and soap will be available at all events.